I Forgot That Breakups Hurt
3 min readFeb 25, 2020
At some point, I had decided that my heart was tough and scabby; I was wrong.
After a divorce, some truly epic dating disasters and other attempted relationships that had gone sour, I thought that I’d become resistant to heartbreak. It turns out that I was just used to ending the relationship in my head before it ended in real life. When I looked back, every relationship ended with me as the instigator, and a…