I think that there’s something inherently powerful in trusting someone enough to allow them to dominate you. It feels good because you’re actively making that choice rather than having it forced on you by societal expectations. I say this as another feminist who definitely enjoys being dominated in the bedroom.

Crazy dog mom, mental health advocate, project manager and writer

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